Gay love:Is it so hard?

Love between 2 guys had always been a complicated issue,some say that a true love between 2 guys can never exist and all gays are promiscuous,some say that the reason why gay love doesn't last for long is that there's no strong bond like marriage between heterosexual couples,but let's face it does marriage mean love?here for example mostpeople get married to have families,children and not to be alone when they get older,so it's so normal that a lot of gays here are married not to forget traditions and the family pressure.Even straight guys who are married,are they really faithful?Do they really love there wives?I guess mostof them had betrayed their wives even in their imagination.What i want to say is that the problem isn't about homosexuality itself,even a straight guy has a lot of girlfriends during his life,as a gay guy do,so maybe that one love thing is not really realistic,the point is to fine love and live it and there are a lot of gay couples who are in love and who are married too,I don't think that it's marriage or kids that keeps love alive but it's our feelings towards someone,to love the guy with his bads and goods.And for those who say that gay love doesn't exist i say love is tender and knows no gender and we just need to find it.